by robbin90 » Fri Jan 07, 2011 12:24 pm
I have no right to "allow" my fiance to do anything. He's a grown man and can make his own decisions, as is your father. My fiance masturbates and yes, watches porn on occassion when i'm not with him (he has an out of state business trip once a month). Neither are bad things necessarily. They're fine as long as they're not interfereing with the couples' sex life. Which is something your mother and father deal with together. She most likely knows about his watching porn (if he's watching porn because right now, it sounds like you're only making assumptions). It's not your place to go to your mom and talk to her about these things. Their sex life is personal and has nothing to do with you.
As far as coming out with a blacket around his waist, you don't know that he was masturbating. If he was masturbating, he wouldn't need the blanket around his waist. If you feel uncomfortable with him being so undressed around you, then be a big girl and talk to him about that yourself. Ask him to at least wear pants if you're so bothered by boxers and a blanket.