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I'm married to someone I care a lot about, but she just doesn't want to have sex. She claims to not have a sex drive. She tells me I'm not allowed to ask for sex that it puts her out of the mood. If I try to make romantic moves towards her she says she's not in the mood. We sleep in different rooms so if I head for her bed room she automatically knows I'm after sex so she will say she's too tired or not in the mood. Normally if I ask her early to make sure she knows I want to make love so that she can try to get to be earlier so she's not too tired she says that I shouldn't have asked her earlier because it put her in a bad mood. If I wait till it's her bed time she's too tired. Been married to this no sex ***** for 13 years, and it's getting old. I just can't even get romantic with her anymore because it puts me in a bad mood now after all these years of putting up with that. Is there and answer, or are all women the same? I also chatted with women on line and they don't want to talk about sex. My wife don't want to talk about sex. What gives? Should I look for another man, would it be easier to be with another man even thought the thought repulses me, I wonder if other men actually want to have sex like I do? Dammit help me here, I'm going crazy. I can only masturbate so much.

no dude. not every woman is like that. in fact, there is a great deal of women who LOVE sex. the majority of them do. i dont know whats going on with your wife. not to offend or anything but, are you sure shes not cheating on you? because thats usually what happens. how can she expect you to ban sex from your life just because she does? its unfair. i know you care about her alot, but you have your needs. confront her about it or even though this sucks, find someone new. unless you want to masterbate for the rest of your life.

Sit her down and say 'sex should never be the main thing in a relationship. but it certainly plays an important roll. i don't want our relationship to go down the pan because of one silly thing. we need to work this out (name here). together. because i love you. and i don't ever want to be one of them men who end up looking for it somewhere else. you mean a lot to me and i love you.'