Orgasms.................?

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Orgasms.................?

Postby amerawdwr80 » Wed Dec 22, 2010 2:29 am

so im 15 and i masturbate and every time i do i get a really strong orgasm, throbbing and uncontrolled thrusting movements from neck down, and it usually comes in 2 minutes or less. is this normal? and why do i not feel the need to keep going? it sometimes even feels uncomfortable to keep going. ive read other questions about sex and how long it should last and some people are saying 1hour +, so am i normal or is there something wrong with me? also, im a virgin and i dont think my hymen is broken if that makes a difference
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Postby simson » Wed Dec 22, 2010 2:43 am

a typical orgasm lasts around 30 seconds to a minute. and yeah theyre pretty powerful. some women can orgasm more then once, but many cant, or at least not till theyve trained themselves a bit. it usually takes me longer then 2 minutes to reach orgasm (unless im using a strong vibrator), but the more inexperienced you are, the less likely you are to know how to prolong arousal. if you go straight for your clitoris, change it up. rubbing a finger between the vaginal lips and around the opening can feel just as good as stroking the clitoris, and it will probably prevent you from orgasming too quick. the more experienced you get at masturbation, the longer you can keep it up. for me, it usually lasts around 45 minutes when i pace myself.

and yeah having an intact hymen really wouldnt make a difference as to how fast you reach orgasm.

oh and the person who claims theyre a nurse, there is nothing sexually or mentally dysfunctional about taking 45 minutes to orgasm. if you cant last longer then 15 minutes then that sounds far more dysfunctional. i guess some people dont understand how to go slowly.
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Postby tzion37 » Wed Dec 22, 2010 2:50 am

Do you mean the orgasm or the time it takes to reach climax?...either way the orgasm shouldn't last no longer than a minute.
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Postby bobo18 » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:03 am

It sounds like you are very proficient nothing wrong with that! if you feel like there is something wrong I would ask your Dr. I know it can be embarrassing but it is worth the peace of mind. Good luck
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Postby hutton » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:09 am

No one, male or female, lasts an hour unless they have a (mental or physical) sexual dysfunction or other illness. If it only takes you two minutes, that is a good thing--your arm won't get tired, and it isn't a big disruption in a busy day.
A lot of people, male and female, lie about their sexual endurance and prowess, usually to try to attract partners or earn undeserved respect. Pretty much assume anything over 6 inches or 15 minutes is unlikely. Possible, but unlikely.
It doesn't make a difference in your orgasm if your hymen is broken or not.
Stay a virgin a little while. If you start having sex too early, it gets boring before you get very old.
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Postby hurst27 » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:11 am

everyone is different but from what your saying nothing is wrong its just how your body is reacting if feels uncomfortable stop then. just listen to what your body tells you but if you are so worried i suggest you talk to a doctor maybe I don't know and it kinda does depend on if your a virgin cause there are different kinda of climaxes in case you didn't know lol.
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Postby maximillian » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:21 am

everyone is different but from what your saying nothing is wrong its just how your body is reacting if feels uncomfortable stop then. just listen to what your body tells you but if you are so worried i suggest you talk to a doctor maybe I don't know and it kinda does depend on if your a virgin cause there are different kinda of climaxes in case you didn't know lol.
It's normal to bring yourself to orgasm quickly if you know what you like. It gets uncomfortable to keep going because after an orgasm your clitoris gets super sensitive and it can be uncomfortable to touch. The stuff you may have read is probably written by women who take a long time to come to orgasm, and this is normal too. There is nothing wrong with you love :)
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Postby martell22 » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:33 am

The person saying he is a nurse and knows these things is wrong. Many, many people last more than 15 minutes! I've known people who can literally go all night. The difference is that you are masturbating, sex with a partner is more prolonged. LOL, I've been doing this for years (I'm ancient...35) and it can take me as little as a minute to reach orgasm through masturbation, with a partner it takes at least 20 minutes...the feeling is very different and you're doing other things as well, like kissing, touching and making your partner happy.

By all means stay a virgin as long as possible, but he is flat out lying when he says sex gets boring. It never does.
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Postby osmund » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:40 am

orgasm time, quantity of fluid and pleasure varies from person to person,
keep going happily if you are satisfied with your pleasures.
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Postby chait87 » Wed Dec 22, 2010 3:42 am

It takes me 30 seconds to have an orgasm, thats an even faster time. you are completely normal!
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