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So I'm a senior in highschool and this freshmen in highschool got my number and started texting me over the summer. He is super cute and I'm attracted too him but I know I'm too old for him but we just kind of talk for fun. He compliments me all the time on the way I look and my body and stuff like that a lot. It's cute and flattering, nothing more. But the only thing is when we first started talking it was innocent and he would text 24/7 and if i didnt answer his texts he would freak out. after a few months of talking, our conversations turned pretty sexual. I would always hold back on how sexually I talked to him though, since I'm like 3 years older then him. We haven't kissed or done anything or even been on a date. We just see each other in the hallways and say hey and he texts me a lot, but since school started he hasnt been texting me as much as he did over the summer. Maybe because he doesnt have as much free time. But anyways. Everytime he texts me now he just wants to talk about sex. And I'm starting to feel a little disrespected. So I don't really get mad at him, but I don't say anything about sex I just listen to him. Is he losing respect for me? What should I do to get the respect back?

So I'm a senior in highschool and this freshmen in highschool got my number and started texting me over the summer. He is super cute and I'm attracted too him but I know I'm too old for him but we just kind of talk for fun. He compliments me all the time on the way I look and my body and stuff like that a lot. It's cute and flattering, nothing more. But the only thing is when we first started talking it was innocent and he would text 24/7 and if i didnt answer his texts he would freak out. after a few months of talking, our conversations turned pretty sexual. I would always hold back on how sexually I talked to him though, since I'm like 3 years older then him. We haven't kissed or done anything or even been on a date. We just see each other in the hallways and say hey and he texts me a lot, but since school started he hasnt been texting me as much as he did over the summer. Maybe because he doesnt have as much free time. But anyways. Everytime he texts me now he just wants to talk about sex. And I'm starting to feel a little disrespected. So I don't really get mad at him, but I don't say anything about sex I just listen to him. Is he losing respect for me? What should I do to get the respect back?

Since you are a senior and he is a freshman chances are he isn't looking for a relationship. He is testing his boundaries, and it is all about pleasure for him. Once a guy talks solely about sex, that's the only thing he wants for you. WATCH OUT! Remember, depending on your state, and the age difference if anything happens, you are at fault for being the older one. You're a senior, stick with guys your own age, or wait for college and meet older guys there. Boys are not as mature as girls are at that age, so if he's already younger than you, subtract a few more years on that and that is his true age.

Maybe he sees you as some sort of sister figure? but other than that I think he's using you. he's lucky you're even listening to him, since you're a senior and he's only a freshmen. so yeah, i would tell him to knock it off. tell him you don't mind talking to him, but you're to old for him and you don't want to talk about sex. i'm sure he will get the message. k good luck. :)

I don't necessarily think he's using you, cause what could he be using you for. But one day just text him and say I'm older than you, as you know. And i don't feel comfortable talking about this topic with you. I like talking to you as a friend. But thats all i wanna do. Be friends... at least for now.

U know what the easiest thing for guys to stop doing something if u just freaking talk to him and tell him how u feel tell him u don't mind talking about sex sometimes just not all the time and tell him how u feel tat u are feeling disrespected.

yeah it happend to me to iam a junior and he a freshmen nd he played around wit me kuz all he wanted to do was hit it and quit it so yeah he is playing you

He thinks he earned the right to talk that way since you let him. Just change the subject if he talks to you in the matter.

He thinks he earned the right to talk that way since you let him. Just change the subject if he talks to you in the matter.

i'd forget about him even if get his respect back and u date him your probably not going to wait around for 3 more years for him to graduate

yeah he using you