I have a few serious questions about the matter and any help would be very appreciated. I dont know how to word this better so I am sorry if my details are rather crude. First of all when i masturbate with lotion to porn, i can orgasm in under a minute, but when I am in the shower with no lotion it takes a long time with very vigorous movement. I am worried that because i can orgasm so fast with lotion I wont perform in bed. I have been doing Kegels for the past few days and I also want to know how long it takes to notice a difference? Last, what are some items i can buy in a store to make me last longer (not the numbing condoms) or what are some thick condoms?
I love my girlfriend and we are getting serious and I honestly do not care about my own pleasure, I am solely focused on her experience. Please help with any knowledge or advice! Thank you!











