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Premature ejaculation and other sex related questions?

Postby wahchinksapa93 » Mon Dec 20, 2010 3:56 am

I have a few serious questions about the matter and any help would be very appreciated. I dont know how to word this better so I am sorry if my details are rather crude. First of all when i masturbate with lotion to porn, i can orgasm in under a minute, but when I am in the shower with no lotion it takes a long time with very vigorous movement. I am worried that because i can orgasm so fast with lotion I wont perform in bed. I have been doing Kegels for the past few days and I also want to know how long it takes to notice a difference? Last, what are some items i can buy in a store to make me last longer (not the numbing condoms) or what are some thick condoms?

I love my girlfriend and we are getting serious and I honestly do not care about my own pleasure, I am solely focused on her experience. Please help with any knowledge or advice! Thank you!
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Postby ardaleah » Mon Dec 20, 2010 3:57 am

Jerk it before you work it.
Masturbating earlier in the day before you have sex will make you last longer during sex. Pretty much all condoms will make it harder for you to orgasm.
Also--it sounds like you're putting the p*ssy on a pedestal. Don't worry about it so much because that is what makes people premature--nerves. Just relax. It's meant to be pleasurable for both of you. Don't just worry about pleasing her--it's really hard to please girls when they're first getting frisky because they're nervous too (it's MUCH harder for a girl to have an orgasm than a guy, don't be discouraged if you can't make her have one during sex--especially your first time. I don't know any girl that had an orgasm her first time having sex). Just enjoy it. Try and make it romantic for the both of you so neither of you will be as nervous.
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Postby bevan85 » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:12 am

with the porn and lotion, it like feels better and the porn "arouses" u and in the shower water isnt very sexy. it takes me like 5-10 min with porn and depenting on how arousedi am between 15-45 in the shower. sorry its a little braud but the time diference is nirmal, the 1 minute rhing i dont think its a major health thing the moreu masturbate the longer ull last and sex isnt u pleasuring urselfwith perfect lube and fast fast movements and a vagina in tge perfect position so i think u r ok . try therhick condoms though
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Postby jeanelle » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:16 am

you can buy different types of condoms and try them out and different types of lube
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Postby kylar95 » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:24 am

Just wear 2 or more rubbers.
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Postby vaiveahtoish » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:32 am

Kegels will take a few weeks for you to see results. Also, read the article below to see if you are doing them right. About ejaculating quickly with lotion, practice the following. The next time you masturbate and are close to climaxing, take your hands off and let the sensations subside. It will be difficult and frustrating to do but it will help you control your ejaculations a lot more.
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Postby cedrick » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:35 am

You have to try to understand the root causes of early ejaculation, “Dylan9”. PE can be caused by both psychological and physical factors, so understanding what causes it is key. Performing oral sex on your women will also help a lot.

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Postby elmer » Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:40 am

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