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<QUOTE>Boyfriend finishes too quickly during sex</QUOTE>

Some suggestions:

1) When you feel he's about to finish, squeeze his balls more and more. Let go when he starts coming back down. He'll either understand it or stop it altogether.

2) When he's focused on it, yell out to the door: "Dad, it's not what you're thinking it is!" Watch him jump to the ceiling.

3) Tell him you're pregnant. From another man. When he's about to finish. Watch him jump to the ceiling.

4) Tell him you were a man one week before you met him. Watch him j... oh you get the idea.

5) Tell him you're changing sex next week.

6) Start singing Celine Dion. Really loud. Tell him it turns you on.

7) Put a Telletubbies tape playing. Tell him it turns you on. (Yikes!)

8) Pretend to be a robot. Speak mechanically. Moan mechanically. If it turns him on instead, it's a sign you should leave him.

9) Cry. He'll stop altogether. (That's just evil.)

10) Talk to his penis as if it were a little doll. "Oh, you're so cute and small, yes you are yes you are!" (That's even worse than number 9.)

OK, that should be enough to get you started. Make it up as you go along.

If he cums before you,that's understandable...what is not is that he laughs at the fact you've been let down once again.Furthermore,he could still do things to pleasure you while he's waiting to get hard again i.e oral,fingering,etc.Usually after a guys first orgasm,he'll go soft,then after he's hard again he'll last longer the second time around.

Just a thought!

you should marry him. you shouldn't have sex with just a boyfriend. abstinence is the way.

Tell me if I am wrong.
You love someone who doesn't satisfy you in bed, doesn't try he laughs at you, nothing changes,
and you are sinning against God, not getting anything out of it, but humiliation. ('Your body is temple of the Holy Spirit.) , taking a chance on getting pregnant, maybe then considering an abortion which is slap in God' face, getting one or more sexually transmitted diseases, and 20 years later remember the unbelivable amount of sexual partners you have had, most if not all who don't satisfy you.
I have counseled for many years, young and old people, and girls, women who have sex early, especially if they become pregnant,etc, end up low self esteem, terrible depression , friends mocking them, old boyfriends laughing at them.
If you have to be just a container for someone to get off on, he can't possible care.
It won't get better, sooner or later, there will be sexual abuse.
Let's try something else, baby, a threesome, bisexual, sadisti-masochistic-handcups, whips, no I am not kidding, Many a story I heard worse than these for girls having sex for the guy only. Often this leads to actually beatings, and sometimes, even death if the guy is really derranged. Of course not every guy does this, but it happens more often than you think.
One counseling session, a young girl told me she had to lock herself in the bathroom, stooping behind the tub, while the guy shot at her through the door. Again, of course this is not the norm, but the way people are today, you need to be careful. It will be late, and somethings you don't have a chance to wish it didn't happen.
Think, don't let someone use you a piece of garbage, and do you think he will stay with you forever??. Do you not think he will one day tell his male friends how you have sex with him and how he laughs and doesn't
try to make you feel good.
Men brag about this stuff. They are worse women as far as gossip is concerned. They need to add to their lists of sexual conquests, Don't let him add you to the list.
Find a nice guy, at a church bazaar, volunteer at some charity event, this is a good way to meet nice people.
My niece met her husband at religious event. He is the best husband a girl can have.. One who respects, and then if it doesn't work out, you may feel bad for a while, but not like a fool.
If and when you two break up, how will fell seeing him with someone else??
It will break your heart, but if you respect yourself, at least you will have your pride, and a chance to find someone who will love and respect you.
AN old saying, but true
Do me wrong one time, shane on you, do me wrong two times, shame on me.
Noone makes a fool out of you but yourself. No sarcam intended, and I am not judging you. I just want to help.
You deserve better.
You are having sex outside of marriage, and taking a chance on more sins and partners and disease, and pregnancy and maybe abortion for someone that doesn't care. Why do you stay with him; Why do you have sex with someone who is treating you like this??.
Do you honestly think he respects you acting this way. No way does he sound like he loves you, you said he doesn't care, well then he is using you to "get off" if you'll pardon the expression.A good boyfriend will respect the girl or woman he loves. Has he ever said I love you.
A few other questions, you said he is a great boyfriend - how I wonder???
What does he do to be a good boyfriend??.
Does he insist on sex all the time, does he take you places, make time for you other than sex. After sex, is he in a hurry to leave??. Does he treat with respect in front of your friends, his friends??.
Does he use foul language alone with you, or in front of others??.
Does he flirt with other girls?
Does he borrow from you, does he take you anywhere, pay for anything.??
Does he make excuses that don't make sense not to see you sometimes??
Sex is great - created by God. It is like a beautiful dress to go dancing in, instead you make mud pies in a ditch. Something beautiful becomes something dirty.
If many of the circumstances I quoted above, are true,
RUN DO NOT WALK, TO THE NEAREST ENTRANCE
Then tell him "Go to Grass, go directly to grass, do not pass go, do not collect $200".!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS AND DESERVE BETTER.
This is not right, but unfortunately true in many cases.
I had a male cousin who told me something I will never forget,(and of course there are exceptions)
He said," guys treat girls the way they act; if they act like working girls, we treat them like working girls,
if they don't respect themselves, why should we respect them???
Hope you will make the right decision.
I will pray for you, say one for me
carol ann