Ex Girlfriend faked orgasms PLEASE HELP LADIES!?

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Ex Girlfriend faked orgasms PLEASE HELP LADIES!?

Postby theros » Sat Dec 04, 2010 11:41 pm

Alright recently I just came out of a year relationship with this girl who dumped me because she thought I was immature. She was my first love and I was pretty devastated. We also took each other's virginity. So last night I was getting this prank calls and I thought they were here so I texted her saying she was a ****. I know that sounds bad and I did apoligise for saying that but I was just so angry cos she has really hurt me but I understand that doesn't excuse my behavior. Anyway all her friends text me last night saying Im a loser who should drop dead. Then she says how I only made her orgasm twice out of the many times we did it and she was faking, which I find hard to believe because I would ask her if there was anything I could do better sexually and she would always say no and that she loved it, but I am only 17 so Im sure Im not good anyway. She said she never told me I was bad because of me 'big ego' which I dont have. And its not like I was selfish I was always going down on her and doing heaps of foreplay and she barely touched my member.We would sometimes do it more than once In a night cos she would finish before I did but she said she only did that cos she wanted me off her and was hoping to orgasm the following time. And then she tells me she took so long to ask me out cos she was never attracted to me or my personality, Even though she had previously asked for numerous pictures of me naked. So girls do you think this stuff about her not finding me attractive is true, would you do this to a guy. Like why would she ever get with me if all that is true. I feel so lied to and betrayed and my confidence is totally shattered. Its almost as if everything I thought was a lie. All I think about is no girl will ever want to get with me again:( AND NO I DO NOT HAVE PREMATURE EJACULATION I would often go from 30 min to an hour because I was so focused on making her orgasm I would forgo my own and not really care about my own. But she wasn't very good haha
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Postby rent » Sat Dec 04, 2010 11:48 pm

Alright recently I just came out of a year relationship with this girl who dumped me because she thought I was immature. She was my first love and I was pretty devastated. We also took each other's virginity. So last night I was getting this prank calls and I thought they were here so I texted her saying she was a ****. I know that sounds bad and I did apoligise for saying that but I was just so angry cos she has really hurt me but I understand that doesn't excuse my behavior. Anyway all her friends text me last night saying Im a loser who should drop dead. Then she says how I only made her orgasm twice out of the many times we did it and she was faking, which I find hard to believe because I would ask her if there was anything I could do better sexually and she would always say no and that she loved it, but I am only 17 so Im sure Im not good anyway. She said she never told me I was bad because of me 'big ego' which I dont have. And its not like I was selfish I was always going down on her and doing heaps of foreplay and she barely touched my member.We would sometimes do it more than once In a night cos she would finish before I did but she said she only did that cos she wanted me off her and was hoping to orgasm the following time. And then she tells me she took so long to ask me out cos she was never attracted to me or my personality, Even though she had previously asked for numerous pictures of me naked. So girls do you think this stuff about her not finding me attractive is true, would you do this to a guy. Like why would she ever get with me if all that is true. I feel so lied to and betrayed and my confidence is totally shattered. Its almost as if everything I thought was a lie. All I think about is no girl will ever want to get with me again:( AND NO I DO NOT HAVE PREMATURE EJACULATION I would often go from 30 min to an hour because I was so focused on making her orgasm I would forgo my own and not really care about my own. But she wasn't very good haha
pay a very pretty woman or girl to hang all over you to make her jealous.

Plus, you need to eat and exercise.

When my first love of 4 years broke up with me, I got depressed and didn't eat and not eating made me more depressed which killed my appetite which made me not eat which made me depressed....
I tried to commit suicide.

You must eat, exercise and find a girl even if you have to pay her.

Just so you don't commit suicide. Get help if you can't eat or exercise.
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Postby otho » Sat Dec 04, 2010 11:51 pm

Dude! I am not a chick. I am a 100 percent straight male who has dated more then my fare share and can answer your question. When an ex girlfriend wants to insult or get even with her ex boyfriend they go straight for the crotch and our sexual performance with them. They know us guys take that to heart more then anything else so thats why they attack us there. Pay it no attention at all. When your with them your god in bed and when the relationship is over your the 2 inch minute man. No one will really believe it cause every girl says things like that about their ex boyfriends in a break up. Your buddies probably all went through this at least once so they know the drill and all her female friends probably have done it to their ex boyfriends so they know she is full of it to. Just drop it and sever all ties with her. I know its a hard thing getting over your first love, but at your age you'll love again, and again, and again. Hand in there and best of luck!!!
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Postby pert » Sat Dec 04, 2010 11:55 pm

She probably said that just to hurt your feelings, but to be honest even if it was true, you're only seventeen. You need to get a bit more experience before you know what women like.

Future Tip: a girl gets warmer and wetter after she has a real orgasm - that cannot be faked.
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Postby maximillian » Sun Dec 05, 2010 12:01 am

Awwwwww
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