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I can't believe he did this to me but he told me he was just going in for a minor check up and then he comes home with a prescription drug for impotence. I am so embarrassed, I don't feel like I can go back to our doctor now, like I need to find a new one. However, I really like this doctor because he really listens to me and my concerns. What should I do and why do men do these kinds of things??

You should pat your husband on the back. We go to doctors for medical advise and you should seek it when you are there. He is having a problem and told the one person that he should tell. Having a problem like that is easily fixable and not a big deal. There is nothing for you to be embarrassed about. A doctor that listens to you and talks to you is a great doctor and you should not get a new one. Your husband obviously feels the same way. Too many men would ignore this problem because of their own embarrassment and that is not right.

Why are you embarrassed? You have no reason to be. You aren't the one with the problem

Be thankful he had enough balls to bring it up and get help.

Whoa you have some issues! And they have nothing to do with the doctor!

If he is a good doctor who listens to his patients then that would be why he opened up about something so sensitive to him. You are quite self absorbed aren't you?

You husband was seeking help and medical advice and unless you are the reason he can't get it up what do you have to be embarrassed about?

Is there some other doctor he should have talked to about this? What the hell are you embarrassed about?

Would you rather he not mention it and he continue to have problems? The doctor is exactly who he is should be talking to.

Why would that embarrass u??? If it would embarrass anyone it would be him. You should be happy that he went and got help with something that will benefit you also. It is a private thing between him and his doctor and it shouldn't concern you. Believe me doctors have heard it all. He is not going to look at you any differently. You should support your husband, instead of making an embarrassing issue even more difficult.

Look, do you think it was easy for your husband to tell another man that he has problems sexually? It's very difficult for any man to admit to that, he did it for you! He did it to help you and keep you happy!

Why would you be embarrassed? It's natural! It's not like your doctor is going to judge you or throw bbq's and tell all of his friends about it!! I hope you don't think you're that important in the doctors life!

You should be thankful that your husband loves you enough to embarrass himself and be supportive of him!

I don't get women sometimes, I am a woman, and I never think the things half the women on here think! I'm only 25, you women should know better!

IT'S NOT ALWAYS THE MAN'S FAULT!

Oh My God! Your husband went to his doctor for treatment of a physical problem that is making him unhappy? He is so selfish!!!! Shame on him.

Wow. Really? Are you really that much of a bad person?

How selfish are you? You like this doctor because he really listens to you and your concerns. What about your husband? Doesn't he deserve the same treatment. This kind of a think would be a huge and very sensitive issue for a guy to deal with. You should be happy that he was willing to talk about it and get help. Do you think the doctor even cares?? Think about all the other stuff they hear and not to mention see