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First off, I am 19 year old girl out of a long relationship (thank god) with the only BF I've had; excluding just random flings with guys. I started talking with this guy about a month ago, and we've been talking on and off since and theres obviously a little crush going on, even if it is a small one thats going no where. But I am single and like this whole meeting/ hanging out with new guys thing, yada yada. Lets see, he invited me to his basketball game (free tickets=what up) and we hungout on vday and just watched a movie, nothing romantic or planned. But we cuddled a bit during the movie just talking and goofing around (it was our first time hanging out one on one) and eventually when it was time for me to go he leaned in for a kiss. I don't want to come off as easy, and am good at being that hard-to-get girl, so after a peck I politely put my finger on his mouth and said that I should be going. He smiled and understood, and still wants to hangout some more. ANYWAYS. We are hanging out again (a week later, so, this sunday) and I'm afraid of what to do when he comes in for anoher kiss! I dont want to make out yet and just be another girl, how do I make the temptation last longer without coming off like I'm not interesed or making things awkward?

You should just go with what feels right. For me, the women I've dated and kissed on the first date, amongst other things, are usually the ones I've stuck with for the longest times. I would ignore any advice that set a specific time frame to go from point A to point B. because what works for one won't work for all.

Be true with yourself, if you want to make out, do it.
From my point of view, I don't like girls who like to play the "hard-to-get" game. I don't like to play those games. I'm very honest and direct, and I like girls to behave the same way. But, I know some guys like to play those games, maybe he is one of those.