by gaston » Sat May 15, 2010 12:32 am
Do you masturbate shortly before being intimate with her? if not, then try it. 2- not to encourage drinking, but men seem to last longer if they have a few beers in them. 3, turn your concentration over from feeling the pleasure to making the pleasure, mind over matter. No reason to be insecure about it, some men just can't go for long. 4, try changing the rhythm of your movements. if you start slow and speed up, then I suggest you change the pattern. move to different positions to break the feeling a bit, by moving the sensations will change and the short break in the rush happening at the time will give you a chance to last longer. 5.. no harm in toys if she is open to it. and for those times you can't last, by using one on her it will give you both the satisfaction of pleasure as long as you are into using it on her. 6- if you have to completely stop for a second, tell her you have the urge to *** and are trying to hold off, she will understand, in the mean time to keep you erect she can please you with her mouth. I hope one of these work for you both.. nothing to be ashamed of.. and you aren't alone. Dana