Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

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Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby dearbourn10 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 11:27 am

At your age feeling hungry (because you're undergoing MASSIVE bodily changes including growth spurts), breaking out and experimenting with masturbation is NORMAL. It's actually a good thing to know how to pleasure yourself, knowing what makes you feel good will help you later on when you are having sex to make it as pleasurable as possible. She is over-reacting and if she reads your diary and doesn't even listen to what you say means she has her own issues. Talking about it to a school counselor can help and maybe find a female relative (older cousin, aunt, grandmother) who you trust to listen to you, support you and intervene on behalf of you. As well, having a boyfriend doesn't mean that you're having sex with him. Most girls your age enjoy having a boyfriend for all the affection, not the chance to have sex. I had my first boyfriend just before my 15th birthday, then had my second one a few months later and we only had sex after about a year and a half of dating.

Thongs aren't perverted, in fact if you're wearing clothes where a visible panty-line would look vulgar or if you want underwear that doesn't bunch up given half a chance, thongs are the way to go. Depending on your personal preferences they may even be more comfortable than normal underwear - I personally think they're slightly more comfortable than normal underwear.
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Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby octave33 » Wed Mar 10, 2010 11:30 am

I don't know, to me it sounds like she is overreacting. My younger sister sounded kind of like you, but she ended up being a nympho, she's slept with everybody in our town. Mom was suspicious, she should have acted like your mom, in my opinion. Then she was all over me, for reasons like buying a thong ( I too, was curious), when I wasn't doing anything really bad. It's hard to say since I don't know the situation but to me it sounds like she is overreacting. Try to give her a little credit, she just cares a lot. A good mom should. I'm glad my mom cared that much.
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Is my mom over reacting? Or am i 'growing up' too fast?

Postby pascoe » Wed Mar 10, 2010 11:33 am

I don't know, to me it sounds like she is overreacting. My younger sister sounded kind of like you, but she ended up being a nympho, she's slept with everybody in our town. Mom was suspicious, she should have acted like your mom, in my opinion. Then she was all over me, for reasons like buying a thong ( I too, was curious), when I wasn't doing anything really bad. It's hard to say since I don't know the situation but to me it sounds like she is overreacting. Try to give her a little credit, she just cares a lot. A good mom should. I'm glad my mom cared that much.
Dont worry my mom does that too... Did your mom get pregnant when she was young or have sex at a young age? Cause this could cause her to worry more. But dont worry my mom called me a hussy for getting a thong too and I was just getting one so that my underwear lines didnt show through my jeans cause I was tired of going underwearless.. but ya my mom is exactly the same I'm tired of it too I use to have her full trust until I started having guy friends. But dont worry your not doing anything wrong. haha its funny cause I just turned 16.

but yeah just ignore her she's just worried about you.
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Postby asiph » Wed Mar 10, 2010 11:45 am

your gay thats whats.
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