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I have found hundreds of sex emails between my husband and a woman he worked with. But in one of them, he veers from the usual sex talk and starts getting personal.

The woman was talking about how much she loves porn and he asks "And what does your husband think of that?" She says he loves it, they're both the same about it, she even has her own collection and is just like a guy. My husband replied that her husband was a very lucky man.

Does the fact that he wants to know about her relationship mean that he's getting involved?

Please be honest and stay away from "leave him already" answers - it's going to happen, but not right now. please answer the question and thank you!

I have found hundreds of sex emails between my husband and a woman he worked with. But in one of them, he veers from the usual sex talk and starts getting personal.

The woman was talking about how much she loves porn and he asks "And what does your husband think of that?" She says he loves it, they're both the same about it, she even has her own collection and is just like a guy. My husband replied that her husband was a very lucky man.

Does the fact that he wants to know about her relationship mean that he's getting involved?

Please be honest and stay away from "leave him already" answers - it's going to happen, but not right now. please answer the question and thank you!

he should not be talking to no other woman about pornos... if i was you dont worry about her look how less of a person she is she talking to marry man in she marry...... you need to confront him fast let him kno what you found... dont be blinded in let him keep going writing her in you not saying nothing that will be your biggest mistake your a woman i hope with values in morals respect yourself in let him know that you kno whats going on on... please print out the emails that he has been sending her so you could let him see all that you been seein of them writing to each other... Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why ask the question if your not going to leave a man that is trying to cheat on you!!!! He already has you brainwashed!!!! Talking about sex leads to sex and he will have sex with her because your not going anywhere. so just be quiet and deal with it!!!!!

I think there is a lot more going on here than meets the eye. I think your husband is being set up for a threesome and who knows what else. He may not be involved right now but his curiosity may get the better of him. There is nothing emotional going to happen here it's only sexual, if that helps. This woman and her husband are up to something.

Sex talk is most of the time nothing but talk. There are things that men cant say to their wives just because they know they wont appreciate it, besides SOMETIMES is more fun to talk about it with strangers.
Then again there is sex talk, like talk about sex and what you sexually like and then there is sex, actual sex thru emails, txt and etcs. which although is not the real thing, is something you should do with the person you are with.
He obviously is not happy with you if he thinks her man is a "lucky man" At this point I am pretty sure you are not happy with him either. Whether he has feelings or not for that other woman is irrelevant.
He is emotionally involved if his priority is her emails. I watch porn but only when my wife is too tired for sex or when I am away on a business trip. And most of the time is videos of my wife and I. But I love my wife. She is the best sex and the best porn had have and will ever have.
Do you feel he is still emotionally attached to you? are you wiling to just be the friend while he gets his physical need met by some other woman?
If you are leaving him, why does it matter if he is emotionally involved? I think the woman is not but he might be, because the woman talks about her husband, he doesnt talk about you, does he?

I think you are wondering if this can still be saved. Depending on how much this means to you and how willing you are to meet and succeed at pleasing him in what he wants.

Good luck

Sex talk is most of the time nothing but talk. There are things that men cant say to their wives just because they know they wont appreciate it, besides SOMETIMES is more fun to talk about it with strangers.
Then again there is sex talk, like talk about sex and what you sexually like and then there is sex, actual sex thru emails, txt and etcs. which although is not the real thing, is something you should do with the person you are with.
He obviously is not happy with you if he thinks her man is a "lucky man" At this point I am pretty sure you are not happy with him either. Whether he has feelings or not for that other woman is irrelevant.
He is emotionally involved if his priority is her emails. I watch porn but only when my wife is too tired for sex or when I am away on a business trip. And most of the time is videos of my wife and I. But I love my wife. She is the best sex and the best porn had have and will ever have.
Do you feel he is still emotionally attached to you? are you wiling to just be the friend while he gets his physical need met by some other woman?
If you are leaving him, why does it matter if he is emotionally involved? I think the woman is not but he might be, because the woman talks about her husband, he doesnt talk about you, does he?

I think you are wondering if this can still be saved. Depending on how much this means to you and how willing you are to meet and succeed at pleasing him in what he wants.

Good luck

Reading your last sentence, I’d rather not answer.. because in all honesty, what does it matter? His intentions were in black and white.. what more do you want?
To answer your question, he probably just was curious… but like I said, what does it matter? Dumb-dumb

Um yes... but does that change anything even if he was emotionally or sexually involved...??

Cheating is cheating....whether it had emotional or sexual factors that played in it correct?

O M G.
What the hell do you need to know beyond...
--> I have found hundreds of sex emails between my husband and a woman... <---
Seriously!?!?
Ya, Honey -- he is "involved."
xoxoxoxo

If hes got an online mistress he's being unfathful to you in all but the physical act so far & if he keeps it up hell end up screwing around on you anyway. He needs to get his mind away from online **** & concentrate on you.

That doesn't mean he's emotionally involved. Either he was just reacting to a woman saying she has a lot of porn. Or he was just comparing her to you. "Usual" sex talk? thats funny. I can't understand women like you. My brother's wife is the same. He cheats, and she stays. How can you kiss him? How can you talk to him without saying what you want to say? It just amazes me, I'm curious. Can you email me the response? I can't post this question since no girl would say she does this.