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Okay, to start off I'd like to say that I don't want any responses saying don't do it, you're too young, etc. I know all of this. I'd kill my child if they even THOUGHT of doing some of the things that I do. I am 15 years old. I don't want to say I'm all mature and what not.. but I kind of am. I've had it rough. I grew up too fast- but that's another story.

My boyfriend and I began to engage in sexual behaviors awhile ago. Here's how it goes- I am always on top, never completely stripped, my clothes are just readjusted for our actions, and it's quick. The above is because we never have much time with each other, and we have to be sneaky. My mother doesn't trust me. I do NOT resent her for this, she's a smart woman. Anyways, I'd like to, when we get more time, actually make love with him. Never, he's the only one I've been with, have I had real sex with him. It's always the quickies and then gone, we're always afraid to get caught. How do I tell him that I want this? I want to be on the bottom, seems more romantic to me although I like the top ;), and I want it to last a little longer.. help?

Please, no hate comments.. Honestly, I know that I am stupid. I have lots to learn. You can't tell me something I haven't already heard and KNOW. Thank You.

First off communication is big and you need to make him aware of this not in a straight up front way. For the most part most men cant go long, but if you want it to be longer then heres what you do. The first sexual interaction of the day is fast, but if you dont know the second time for him will be longer so when you confront him about it have him masturbate before you guys even meet up. And like I said tell him about it, tell you him you want it to be romantic. Seeing that you guys are of that age he may not know how to do this, so thats where you come into play and you can use things such as candles, have him do things like feel you and kiss you on your neck slowly and smooth I dont want to go to into detail with it. And of course you both must be naked for you to get the whole feel of it, but all of this takes a long time so dont go into an environment where all you have is a small window of opportunity to do it. Hope this advice helped if you want to know more then send me a message and I can further assist u. =)

Do it after school .
Or during school ditch then go to your/his house [if no ones there and) get it done .
And tell him , if you guys aren't talking like enough to tell him you want bottom
then maybe you guys shouldn't . . . don't give it up yet make him work a little .
to know if he's really into you.

Tell him and set up a date and if you guys are really that restricted then it will have to be made a while in advance. The waiting will make it super hot too. And he'll be stoked and think it's sexy that you want him enough to do it right.

well doesnt look like you are going to be able to achieve this in your own home. I'd suggest a hotel room or his place. When you are kissing him just whisper "make love to me" and roll over so he's on top.

Next time, or when, you get the opportunity to be with him... without a time restraint... tell him, that you'd like to do it, your way... nice and slow :)

you've never had "real" sex? sex is when a penis enters your vagina? have you done that? cause if so, you've had "real" sex.

Tell him directly what you want. Even if you can't look at him in the eyes ask him to hold you or hug you while you tell him.

Wait until your old enough to not have to sneak to have sex and that would solve your problem. Cheers!

you need to tell him these quickies are out. and
tell him you want to be on the bottom and more time.