I've done extensive research in psychology as well as almost all sciences but that is far from stating I'm an expert in any. My point being, I don't believe this is in any shape or form a psychological reserve against having sex in some unconscious/subconscious or conscious manner. That being said I'm not particularly sexually driven, but I do have a very strong desire to pleasure my signifigant other. Something in which I'm often times only allowed to even entertain the thought of doing orally or through other means.
I'm able to achieve an erection on occasion, and will be reasonably and adequately firm, but it usually does not last past ten minutes. On rare occasion have I been able to keep a firm erection for the full length of even a masturbation session in able to achieve ejaculation. If I do achieve an erection with my partner, and the stimulation is not constant, it will also go flacid.
Would this be a lack of natural and genuine desire simply to ejaculate in a female ( or male) ? Or perhaps there is a physiological issue for this ( counting things such as testosterone which may increase "desire".)?
Please if you're able to aid me, I'm unable to aquire viagra or such unnatural aids, and they're being greatly considered. If the anguish brought with being unable to share something such as this, spontaneously, or any time, is enough, please think of that as an incitive to aid me should you have any expert or even mythical possible help.











