by basile » Sat Nov 21, 2009 12:33 pm
Sex does not seem a great part of your motive
for divorce since you have already gone through
20 over years of marriage with him, in his impotent
condition...
Is it because you feel emotionally empty ?
Is there someone else taking over a place in your heart?
What are the STRONGER reasons to stay
on in the marriage?
How would another 20 years of divorce serve
to make you happier (you would be like in your 50's?)
with a broken family behind?
How would your kids feel?
Impotence for men can be very hurtful too,
have you ever wondered he may be stressed
and hurt about his own condition too?
Marriage is not just all about sex but a lot of
good communication, unconditional and
sacrificial love.
For a woman, it is mostly about
emotional connections.
It would be nice if you both could really
talk things out.
Seek counselling if possible. Talk to a
trusted mature friend, pastor...& keep
yourself busy with meaningful activities,
volunteer work.
Pray and commit all cares unto the Lord.
Count your blessings, not your missings.
Take care! I wish you well here...............:)