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He is afraid to fail as a ''man'' again that is why he is avoiding sexual contact with you. Not because his feelings toward you have changed. A lot of stress can cause temporary impotence in a guy. Then it will be back to normal when the stressor disappears out of his life. If you can life with not driving him on to try to have sex with you and show him that you just want to be close to him.. you will make him feel better and he won't feel as if he has to perform. He would like to be intimate with you every time he is with you but right now the fear to fail to get an erection is greater than his desire to try and find out.. so give him some time. Just ask him to be close and hold you or hold each other. There are other ways to show one is close to each other apart from having sex. If his impotence is due to stress he needs no medication. then he needs to get rid of the stress in his life.. Only if this remains this way. then he should go for help.. but stress causes impotence.. or anxiety.. if he is under a lot of stress at present then he doesn't need a doctor then he only needs to get over the stress factor.. if it remains a problem then he should see a doctor.