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PLEASE READ THIS! SORRY IF IT'S LONG... Ok, first off, I know I'm not the perfect role model, but let me be a hypocrit and say these things are wrong.

I accidentally picked up my sisters phone and checked her texts (yes, yes, I'm a horrible sister, but she'd been acting strangely protective of it recently), she's fourteen, and found out she's been sexting this seventeen year old guy in my school year! She seems to think he's really amazing and awesome but I don't know, he's always been a bit of a player and judging by the texts I happened to stumble across he's trying to move REALLY fast (like, they've been texting for a few weeks and he's talking about sex...). I'm scared for her safety if nothing else. So here's my questions about her:
1) Do I tell her what I found out?
2) Do I confront him about it?
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave her, it's her business...?

And my IDIOT brother... He's eighteen but most of the time he has a mind of a child (he's quite mature when he wants to be, but then sometime's he entertains himself by looking up blonde jokes on the internet - he's blonde... - and setting fire to his farts and sh*t like that). But recently I found out he's been dating a FIFTEEN year old... He seems to really love her, though. But now I think she's pregnant :O I found a pregnancy test in his room when he forced me to clean it (I come from a lovely family - I was only visiting for the weekend) and I found some emails from her like "I'm too young", "My family are gonna FREAK!" and stuff of that sort. I don't know what to do! So my questions are basically the same as the one's for my sister:
1) Do I tell him what I think I've found out?
2) Do I confront her about it? (She respects me, and thinks of me as a sister - I used to tutor her and just generally hang out with her...)
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave him, it's their business...?

OMG, how am I the MATURE one out of nine (well, eight now - RIP darling) children! Well, I'm not ACTUALLY mature, I'm sixteen, pregnant and just generally nosy...

PLEASE HELP!

PLEASE READ THIS! SORRY IF IT'S LONG... Ok, first off, I know I'm not the perfect role model, but let me be a hypocrit and say these things are wrong.

I accidentally picked up my sisters phone and checked her texts (yes, yes, I'm a horrible sister, but she'd been acting strangely protective of it recently), she's fourteen, and found out she's been sexting this seventeen year old guy in my school year! She seems to think he's really amazing and awesome but I don't know, he's always been a bit of a player and judging by the texts I happened to stumble across he's trying to move REALLY fast (like, they've been texting for a few weeks and he's talking about sex...). I'm scared for her safety if nothing else. So here's my questions about her:
1) Do I tell her what I found out?
2) Do I confront him about it?
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave her, it's her business...?

And my IDIOT brother... He's eighteen but most of the time he has a mind of a child (he's quite mature when he wants to be, but then sometime's he entertains himself by looking up blonde jokes on the internet - he's blonde... - and setting fire to his farts and sh*t like that). But recently I found out he's been dating a FIFTEEN year old... He seems to really love her, though. But now I think she's pregnant :O I found a pregnancy test in his room when he forced me to clean it (I come from a lovely family - I was only visiting for the weekend) and I found some emails from her like "I'm too young", "My family are gonna FREAK!" and stuff of that sort. I don't know what to do! So my questions are basically the same as the one's for my sister:
1) Do I tell him what I think I've found out?
2) Do I confront her about it? (She respects me, and thinks of me as a sister - I used to tutor her and just generally hang out with her...)
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave him, it's their business...?

OMG, how am I the MATURE one out of nine (well, eight now - RIP darling) children! Well, I'm not ACTUALLY mature, I'm sixteen, pregnant and just generally nosy...

PLEASE HELP!

PLEASE READ THIS! SORRY IF IT'S LONG... Ok, first off, I know I'm not the perfect role model, but let me be a hypocrit and say these things are wrong.

I accidentally picked up my sisters phone and checked her texts (yes, yes, I'm a horrible sister, but she'd been acting strangely protective of it recently), she's fourteen, and found out she's been sexting this seventeen year old guy in my school year! She seems to think he's really amazing and awesome but I don't know, he's always been a bit of a player and judging by the texts I happened to stumble across he's trying to move REALLY fast (like, they've been texting for a few weeks and he's talking about sex...). I'm scared for her safety if nothing else. So here's my questions about her:
1) Do I tell her what I found out?
2) Do I confront him about it?
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave her, it's her business...?

And my IDIOT brother... He's eighteen but most of the time he has a mind of a child (he's quite mature when he wants to be, but then sometime's he entertains himself by looking up blonde jokes on the internet - he's blonde... - and setting fire to his farts and sh*t like that). But recently I found out he's been dating a FIFTEEN year old... He seems to really love her, though. But now I think she's pregnant :O I found a pregnancy test in his room when he forced me to clean it (I come from a lovely family - I was only visiting for the weekend) and I found some emails from her like "I'm too young", "My family are gonna FREAK!" and stuff of that sort. I don't know what to do! So my questions are basically the same as the one's for my sister:
1) Do I tell him what I think I've found out?
2) Do I confront her about it? (She respects me, and thinks of me as a sister - I used to tutor her and just generally hang out with her...)
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave him, it's their business...?

OMG, how am I the MATURE one out of nine (well, eight now - RIP darling) children! Well, I'm not ACTUALLY mature, I'm sixteen, pregnant and just generally nosy...

PLEASE HELP!

PLEASE READ THIS! SORRY IF IT'S LONG... Ok, first off, I know I'm not the perfect role model, but let me be a hypocrit and say these things are wrong.

I accidentally picked up my sisters phone and checked her texts (yes, yes, I'm a horrible sister, but she'd been acting strangely protective of it recently), she's fourteen, and found out she's been sexting this seventeen year old guy in my school year! She seems to think he's really amazing and awesome but I don't know, he's always been a bit of a player and judging by the texts I happened to stumble across he's trying to move REALLY fast (like, they've been texting for a few weeks and he's talking about sex...). I'm scared for her safety if nothing else. So here's my questions about her:
1) Do I tell her what I found out?
2) Do I confront him about it?
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave her, it's her business...?

And my IDIOT brother... He's eighteen but most of the time he has a mind of a child (he's quite mature when he wants to be, but then sometime's he entertains himself by looking up blonde jokes on the internet - he's blonde... - and setting fire to his farts and sh*t like that). But recently I found out he's been dating a FIFTEEN year old... He seems to really love her, though. But now I think she's pregnant :O I found a pregnancy test in his room when he forced me to clean it (I come from a lovely family - I was only visiting for the weekend) and I found some emails from her like "I'm too young", "My family are gonna FREAK!" and stuff of that sort. I don't know what to do! So my questions are basically the same as the one's for my sister:
1) Do I tell him what I think I've found out?
2) Do I confront her about it? (She respects me, and thinks of me as a sister - I used to tutor her and just generally hang out with her...)
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave him, it's their business...?

OMG, how am I the MATURE one out of nine (well, eight now - RIP darling) children! Well, I'm not ACTUALLY mature, I'm sixteen, pregnant and just generally nosy...

PLEASE HELP!

PLEASE READ THIS! SORRY IF IT'S LONG... Ok, first off, I know I'm not the perfect role model, but let me be a hypocrit and say these things are wrong.

I accidentally picked up my sisters phone and checked her texts (yes, yes, I'm a horrible sister, but she'd been acting strangely protective of it recently), she's fourteen, and found out she's been sexting this seventeen year old guy in my school year! She seems to think he's really amazing and awesome but I don't know, he's always been a bit of a player and judging by the texts I happened to stumble across he's trying to move REALLY fast (like, they've been texting for a few weeks and he's talking about sex...). I'm scared for her safety if nothing else. So here's my questions about her:
1) Do I tell her what I found out?
2) Do I confront him about it?
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave her, it's her business...?

And my IDIOT brother... He's eighteen but most of the time he has a mind of a child (he's quite mature when he wants to be, but then sometime's he entertains himself by looking up blonde jokes on the internet - he's blonde... - and setting fire to his farts and sh*t like that). But recently I found out he's been dating a FIFTEEN year old... He seems to really love her, though. But now I think she's pregnant :O I found a pregnancy test in his room when he forced me to clean it (I come from a lovely family - I was only visiting for the weekend) and I found some emails from her like "I'm too young", "My family are gonna FREAK!" and stuff of that sort. I don't know what to do! So my questions are basically the same as the one's for my sister:
1) Do I tell him what I think I've found out?
2) Do I confront her about it? (She respects me, and thinks of me as a sister - I used to tutor her and just generally hang out with her...)
3) Do I tell my parents?
4) Or do I just leave him, it's their business...?

OMG, how am I the MATURE one out of nine (well, eight now - RIP darling) children! Well, I'm not ACTUALLY mature, I'm sixteen, pregnant and just generally nosy...

PLEASE HELP!

I "think" I'd say something like this to my sister; "Suzie, you probably are going to get mad at me and I wouldn't blame you if you did. I really did pick up your phone by accident, but when I discovered it was yours I didn't put it down and read....... All I'm asking you to do is please, please be careful. I don't think you want to end up like I am right now. And if you want to talk about it, or boys in general I'd be glad to talk to you. I'm not going to say anything to mom and dad." Give her a hug.

Go to the girl you've already established a relationship with - "Suzie, I had to clean Joe's room for him last week and I found a pregnancy test while I was cleaning. I know he really thinks a lot of you, and I thought I'd ask you if there's anything you'd like to talk about?"

To the boy that's messing with your sister: "John, I found some messages you've sent to Suzie that contain a lot of sex talk in them. Here's the deal. If you don't quit talking to my sister about sex OR if she finds out we've had this little talk, I'm going right to your parents and have a talk with them. The choice is yours."

I "think" that's what I'd do. I'm not sure what kind of relationship you have with your brother that's why I left him out. However, perhaps you should let him know what you found and if so let him know that you've HAD (after the fact) a talk with his gf.

What don't you try and figure out how many more problems you can pile on yourself? I mean your 16, pg and are facing more serious problems, any one of which would drive a parent up wall. Why don't you take on a couple of mine while your at it. Good night.

Good luck --- you and your family are going to need it.

If it was my sister, I only have the one, but I'd talk to her. I honstly dont care if she doesnt like me for it, I'd tell her that I love her and Im looking out for her. And we have fallen out before BIG TIME (not spoke for a year once) becuase we've disagreed on what she thinks is best for me and vice versa. I would also tell that lad to back the f*ck off my sister or you'' make sure he'll get a statutory rape charge. Your sister probably wont like you for it, but its a case of cruel to be kind.
As for your brother, and I dont have a brother so, Im just stabbing in the dark here. But if your close to the girl too, explain what happened, fool your brother for making you clean his room, tell her you know and you will be there for her. Dont be judgemental, be a friend. Whatever her decision is to do with the baby support her with it, tell her her options but dont force one on her. She'll resent you for it if she makes the wrong decision. Talk to your brother, and be there for him too, he's too young to be a dad, and tell him the MAJOR pro's and cons to it.
I wouldnt go to your parents initially, I'd try to gain both of their trusts. If you REALLy can help use the parent card as a last resort. But in my honest opinion, your closer to both their ages, you can relate more. Good luck.