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I am 24 and Ive been in quite a few relationships, most of them not lasting any longer than a few months. Ive had so many bad experiences as far as dating goes!!! I feel like im doing something wrong!! I figure maybe if I take sex out of the equation, it will change for the better, not saying that I got around or anything but, I would like to see if it makes a difference in the outcome......any thoughts on this???

I am 24 and Ive been in quite a few relationships, most of them not lasting any longer than a few months. Ive had so many bad experiences as far as dating goes!!! I feel like im doing something wrong!! I figure maybe if I take sex out of the equation, it will change for the better, not saying that I got around or anything but, I would like to see if it makes a difference in the outcome......any thoughts on this???

Don't talk about sex on dates. Wait for him to bring up the topic. Then say you changed your opinion on sex and have decided to wait for marriage. If he sticks with you, then you can "change your mind" after dating for several months. One step at a time). Only if he has proven himself to be a solid, long term boyfriend.

Don't talk about sex on dates. Wait for him to bring up the topic. Then say you changed your opinion on sex and have decided to wait for marriage. If he sticks with you, then you can "change your mind" after dating for several months. One step at a time). Only if he has proven himself to be a solid, long term boyfriend.

as a guy, i've been debating this possibility myself. the thing is, i don't want to be misidentified as gay if i want to remove sex from the equation. (not that there's anything wrong with that if you are) i think sex and the expectations others have for it does get in the way of forming a good relationship. i think money does too and any shallow expectation people may have for that matter.

i don't think it was your fault. i think our society and the way it's set up with sex and money being programmed in to us as 'important" really mess up people's heads in terms of relationships.

we've been programmed to think those two aspects are deal breakers if not up to snuff.

and if someone has that in their head, you can't really control that for them. you can only control yourself.

so the conclusion i've come to is that i will just make myself happy first. get to a place where i'm really content: live where i want to live, do what i want to do, etc...and once i'm content, i won't be so disappointed if i don't click with a female because i will be as content as i can be with myself.

do ya knw i completley understand!!! i have this problem all the time my relationships never last longer than a few months if im lucky lol and i always feel like maybe it was my fault somehow. i would say if this is how you feel then go for it and see what happens you could let all us women knw if it works !lol i think alot of men nowadays are after just sex and by yu doing this you will be weeding out ones like that and finding decent ones in the process sounds a good idea to me! you only live once hun you have to do what you feel is right its your life to lead noone elses xxxx good luck and i would like to knw how it goes so keep us posted if u decide to do it(if it works you will cause a no sex revolution lol lol xxx

I personally don't think not having sex will change things, but living a celibate lifestyle might attract a new breed of man for you.

depends for how long,a guy wont wait forever.

if you take s... out..then you will never have a bf again