by ulises64 » Mon Oct 24, 2011 7:50 am
Im very sorry for your pain. You see your children as they were...Little babies in your arms. You watch them grow. All the cute moments...My daughter is 2 and I am afraid for the day that I find out she is having sex. Scary stuff.
You can tell her no but you you shouldn't. If you tell her no she will rebel. It is the nature of a teenager.
I had strict parents, up my A** everyday. Life was hell for me and I rebeled like crazy out of anger. My friend Tammy had a mom who let her do whatever she wanted. Tammy didn't do drugs ever and stayed a virgin till 17.
I think the more you PUSH your children and FORCE them the more you make them turn away from you. You need to teach them morals and find ways to make them feel like they have a choice...Like tell her your opinion, what could happen in a matter-of-factly way. Let her choose, this is your best shot. If you tell her no, you make her feek like a baby and she WILL prove you wrong by doing whatever she wants.