You really don't have a clue do you?
LOVE is all those things that one GIVES to another asking nothing in return. But you are asking for a TON in return! THIS IS NOT LOVE!
This is called: "selfishness".
Your GF is holding out for a RIGHTEOUSNESS in her future marriage of which you don't want! Yes, your belief is for FREE SEX outside of marriage. Do you know that 95% of all people that have affairs and cheat DEMAND sex before marriage?
Why is that anyway?
Because the cheater's CHARACTER is such that sex is not a big deal in a relationship. Sex anytime, anywhere with anyone is just fine. Once married, sex with anyone is still just fine.
This is the CHARACTER you are telling us YOU have!
You just told us how immature and juvenile you really are.
Want sex? Marry her.
(Obviously you don't want that either!)











