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I don't really understand him. Before you guys start telling me to break up with him, I really think things will work between us and we'll be together for a long time. We've been going out for about 3 months.

Well, I try to talk to him about regular things (my day, what's concerning me etc) he takes foreveeerrr to respond. It almost seems like he doesn't really care or doesn't know what to say maybe?
Ever since we've started talking (before he even asked me to be his gf) he's been like this. :/
But what annoys me is that when we sext (no pictures) or talk about sex or if I tell him about someone that hit on me or things like that he always responds instantly.
Ugh. It's so freaking annoying. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't really care what's going on in my life...

He also never talks about his family or what's going on in his life...
I don't get him. :/

Okay, before YOU start thinking you'll be together a long time, you've only been going out 3 months. That's nothing.

It's not that he doesn't care, it means he's barely listening to you, he's thinking of something else while he's listening to you, occupied, or he's got some speech impediment.

It doesn't make a difference whether he was dating you or not, he's probably pre-occupied.

The thing about 'sex' is that, that's probably one of his interests then.

It means he wants to be secretive, he doesn't want to open up to you as much as you do to him. It sounds like you're in your late teens or so. "In College" rather.

Sounds like a good guy, but I doubt you two will make it past 7 months. I'm willing to bet, slowly you'll start drifting apart.

B.

I'm not going to tell you to dump him. You're set on things working out. Good for you. It seems that the best way to get him to respond to your talking is to talk sex. That's it. That's all that he wants to respond to. That's fine with me, fine with him, and I guess fine with you. Wake up and smell the coffee.

I hate to say this but, it seems like he just wants a physical relationship. He isn't looking to talk, he's looking to make out and have sex. I'm not going to tell you to break up with him, but that would be a smart thing to do. You seem like a smart, intellectual girl. You need someone like that.

What you see is what you've got. This is your bf, in all his glory. If this isn't what you want in a bf, then change either what you want (that is, accept him as he is) or change boy friends. You obviously have problems with the way he communicates. So find some guy who communicates the way you want communication. He's not going to change so either you change your wants and attitude or change boyfriends.

hes just a guy the fact he doesnt respond rate away is just cause hes a guy but when he dosent talk about himself or family try to ease him into talking about it u might open up a whole new side of him