by feivel » Sun Oct 16, 2011 9:30 pm
4.5 inches is about average size, and if you research shallow penetration, you will find that it's the fastest way to give a girl a squirting orgasm. It's also why bigger dudes do shallow sometimes as a technique.
And as far as prematurity goes, it's just a muscle. Start getting into the habit of practicing start/stop techniques when you jack off. Slow it down, divert your mind for a sec from the act, then back to it.
This way, you will eventually train yourself to last longer.