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you know work these days are no joke, no matter where you work, and whether that job is fun or not. so maybe he really is tired.

buuuttt....on the other hand, there usually are most guys who lie about it and use this excuse because they just got through from doin another girl before he sees you.

but hey, dont go exactly by what we tell you on Y!A, just follow your instinct, or better yet, ask him. if he has a problem with you asking, then maybe you should investigate a little....

good luck! :]
(if it doesnt work out, always remember theres always other fish in the sea. thats what i tell myself lol :D)

Lets look at this from an intimacy standpoint. You said he can last for a long time. That tells me a lot of things. Sex is mainly just intercourse between the two of you and quite often it leaves you short of an orgasm and him feeling like he failed you. Take a look at the blog on my profile for answers. Go to the List of all blogs and read the Sex and Other Misfortunes Between Men and Women article. It talks about intimacy from the male and female perspective. It also goes a long way towards explaining simple and easy method to make sure it is enjoyable fro both partners. You might also glance at the article on premature ejaculation. You never mentioned it, but who knows it may help. The other articles are good as well. At 21 if he has a normal libido, he is in love with you, and you only see each other weekends. It should be more than once a night, and it should be every day of the weekend. Also the one blog discusses a mans cycle, you might just try getting his interesting in the morning. Mornings are a male's peak for testosterone, hence the morning erection almost every man has. Take advantage of the moment.