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So i met this kid at community college..hes 22..im 19. he went on to a university this semester that just came.and he said he liked me. and wanted to hang out. but randomly this kid seems like he gets cold feet. hes a handsome guy, and looks confident. but hes not. i try to talk sexual to him sometimes and its like he feels weirded out...like as if he doesnt know what to say..and i have to push him to get him to say and finally he'll say it and feel okay.

But tonight he texted me "so my mom didnt go away this weekend (he just came back home) i dont know what we could do. theres not really much to do with no money". we live in massachusetts...and im from new jersey orginally..so im not so fond of what is up here..i live in like the middle of nowhere ville. so i wrote "well i dont either. i dont have much of a clue whats around massachusetts lol" and he asked how long ive lived here..and i told him. and finally he never responded. so i said "you still wanna do something?" and i told him how i cant be out extremely late cuz i live with my parents, so my mom will get kinda angry if i come home mad late. cuz in their eyes im 19, and its their house. but if he cant hang out im free throughout most of the week. i got no response.

I told my friend fabien and he said "no response? drop him...i dont get why he thinks money is an issue..does he reallly need money to have a good time. when im sure you'll just be hooking up along with it" and i told my brothers ex gf and she basically said "ohh wow ive dealt with these guys, they are soooo nice, but not manly enough..i like the stronge type physically and mentally (as do i), if he doesnt have balls its gonna be hard to get thro to him..it gets really irriating...and makes you wanna just give up. you cant do much about these types".

i just feel like im 16 again, with a guy with no balls. im so used to my ex bf who took control...liked me..asked me out...told me what he wanted..treated me like a female and that i didnt need to worry to chase him around like a little boy. Should i just not talk to this guy, i only talk to him once in awhile..bc i have other guys including my ex still talking (but were not dating)..so hes not the biggest issue. but it just came up tonight and never responded back to me!!!!

Hah I agree I hate guys like this I like my coworker alot an he is like this but idk forget em it's a waste!!! Move on!!! Not worth waiting nor trying :p