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Me and my fiancee usually have the most amazing sex life ever and he can last a long time but for some reason this past month he comes really really quickly. I get mad and he says "why are you pissed you should be flattered", which doesn't even make any sence to me at all. Why the hell would I be flattered about something like that? He doesn't drink alot, he doesn't do any drugs, nothing has changed at all except for this. Its effing annoying because he gets action and then busts within maybe 10 minutes before I even get anything out of it soo how do I seriously confront him about this without making him feel stupid or pissing him off? Any time I say something he laughs it off and thinks its funny its kind of annoying, actually its really annoying because I dont get anything out of it now. Last night, we had sex and he busted in 5 minutes no joke and then a little bit later he wanted to do it again, so I thought ok well since he already got off not too long ago this time will be really good and he came in maybe 15 minutes, why is he doing this? Is he just trying to piss me off or something? And what can I do to make him last longer?

Hi Kristin,
I'm no expert here, but can tell you based on my experience that you don't have too much to worry about. I have been married with the same woman for 12 years and we are both in our 40s with a family. We are uncommon in the fact that we have sex way more frequently than others in our status group. Several times a week at the least. Most couples with this demographic don't even do it once a month. When I engaged to her and was younger, I couldn't hold my load either... She was such a nockout i was whipped... I think self control comes with age, and in our case sex only got better with time and lasted longer... Not to say she still isn't a knockout ;)
I learned ways to hold back And please her at the same time... over the years... It took a lot of effort, my wife is very attractive and am fortunate with that, but in return it's hard to hold back. I wouldn't take it personally, just some guys are way more sensitive in this way. You could be flattered too as well...Only advice for him to last longer could be to find out the fastest way for you to be pleased, and find out the slowest way for him to be pleased and hopefully those positions compliment each other. For examples, some positions for many men are going to bust guys way more quickly that others. Find the position that busts him the slowest and you the fastest and then pair it up... Maybe try giving him a few drinks too? that usually numbs me up a bit and I last much longer in the long run when I think of baseball.... It's mind over matter.. Tell him not to be so selfish too... Good luck

Women rarely o during intercourse. so you first then him. have fun.