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He always texts me, but a lot of times the conversation turns sexual. So one day we were talking about something and I responded "i'm sweet and innocent ;)" He goes, "maybe i could taint you a bit" I asked how he'd do that and he goes "how you think?" I said, "then i'd feel all used" and he said:

"that depends on the manner in which its done and the things being done and also how it is treated afterwards but seriously i would never use you."

I told him I didn't believe him because of the way he talks to me and he apologized and said he would stop and to let him know if he ever does it again to let him know he's making me uncomfortable. So I noticed the next few days he was being a lot better. Like one day I was feeling really sad and he was being super sweet trying to make me feel better. I even started to kind of talk sexual to him, just to test him and he said we didn't have to do anything that wasn't cool with me and we can always just hang out, nothing has to happen.

So then last Saturday we went to the movies together. He paid for me and was being really nice. During the movie he started tickling me so I made the first move and kissed him on the neck and the cheek. He kissed me then and we started making out, but then he started grabbing my boobs. At first I'd kinda move his hand, but then eventually I just let him feel me up. I know it was stupid of me, and he even started grabbing me between my legs - he didn't go down my pants but was feeling me up through my jeans. I let him do it for a few seconds and then I moved his hand. Mostly we just cuddled and held hands though. Afterwards it was really awkward thouh. We both acted like nothing happened.

He didn't text me that night or the next day so I was kinda mad at him. I texted him saying "hay puta" and he texted back "don't call me a b*tch retard" I said "I was jk. calm down" and he didn't reply. The next day, though he texted me saying whats up. I said "nothing retard. you need to apologize for what you said to me." He goes "you called me a b*tch. apologize" I said I wouldn't until he did first and he goes "good luck" So i called him a whore. He asked why and I said "cuz u just r." So he goes "fine. bye" and I said "ok bye..whore" He didn't text me for a few days so I texted him yesterday just saying hi. he asked what was up and I told him I was bored and to entertain me. he said "entertain yourself" I asked how and he said "you think i care?" I said "what did I do to you" and he said "you know" so I said "whatever.." and he never responded. Wtf is his deal? Does he feel like I'm not into him, or does he think he can treat me like sh*t now cuz I let him feel me up a little?

He always texts me, but a lot of times the conversation turns sexual. So one day we were talking about something and I responded "i'm sweet and innocent ;)" He goes, "maybe i could taint you a bit" I asked how he'd do that and he goes "how you think?" I said, "then i'd feel all used" and he said:

"that depends on the manner in which its done and the things being done and also how it is treated afterwards but seriously i would never use you."

I told him I didn't believe him because of the way he talks to me and he apologized and said he would stop and to let him know if he ever does it again to let him know he's making me uncomfortable. So I noticed the next few days he was being a lot better. Like one day I was feeling really sad and he was being super sweet trying to make me feel better. I even started to kind of talk sexual to him, just to test him and he said we didn't have to do anything that wasn't cool with me and we can always just hang out, nothing has to happen.

So then last Saturday we went to the movies together. He paid for me and was being really nice. During the movie he started tickling me so I made the first move and kissed him on the neck and the cheek. He kissed me then and we started making out, but then he started grabbing my boobs. At first I'd kinda move his hand, but then eventually I just let him feel me up. I know it was stupid of me, and he even started grabbing me between my legs - he didn't go down my pants but was feeling me up through my jeans. I let him do it for a few seconds and then I moved his hand. Mostly we just cuddled and held hands though. Afterwards it was really awkward thouh. We both acted like nothing happened.

He didn't text me that night or the next day so I was kinda mad at him. I texted him saying "hay puta" and he texted back "don't call me a b*tch retard" I said "I was jk. calm down" and he didn't reply. The next day, though he texted me saying whats up. I said "nothing retard. you need to apologize for what you said to me." He goes "you called me a b*tch. apologize" I said I wouldn't until he did first and he goes "good luck" So i called him a whore. He asked why and I said "cuz u just r." So he goes "fine. bye" and I said "ok bye..whore" He didn't text me for a few days so I texted him yesterday just saying hi. he asked what was up and I told him I was bored and to entertain me. he said "entertain yourself" I asked how and he said "you think i care?" I said "what did I do to you" and he said "you know" so I said "whatever.." and he never responded. Wtf is his deal? Does he feel like I'm not into him, or does he think he can treat me like sh*t now cuz I let him feel me up a little?

Wow. Until I got to the part where you quote your texts I was going to spend some time on a decent answer. But after reading the last paragraph you are both juvenile, immature people with pretty much no clue and you deserve each other.

You know your phone makes calls too right? Forget the texting bu llsh it and talk to each other like grownups.

I think he was wanting to be good friends but at the same time being a horny guy he wanted sex. I Let him go, and at the same time, don't let it get you down. He could have used you much more. Thankfully it didn't, you would feel way more used. I know how hard it us to push a guys hands away and then just go ahead and let them, you almost feel powerless. Now you're both in self defense mode. Let him cool down and don't text him, let him text you if he wants to say sorry

Stop wasting his time and just sext him.

You all sound like you all were good in the beginning. You need to think of why you all made everything awkward after what happened in the movies. All he did was feel you up, that shouldn't be awkward? I think that you are being stubborn by not apologizing first, you were the one who called him a ****** in the first place. You should be the bigger person and call him and tell him that you were just joking and didn't know that he would take it so seriously but you are sorry that you offended him. After you apologize he will apologize. He wasn't just looking for sex it didn't seem like. You can ask him why he didn't talk to you that night after the movies and you can actually find out then just jumping to conclusions. He did text you and ask what was wrong but you held a grudge and replied in a bad way. He said that he didn't want to do anything that you weren't okay with doing. Also he told you to tell him when he was making you uncomfortable and he would stop, you could have told him to stop at the movies, but you let it continue so in his mind he was thinking that you were fine with everything. He seems like he has good intentions, you should apologize and start things over again. I hope I helped, good luck sweetie! (:

Sorry to be so blunt but, he sounds like a d0uchebag and you sound like a b10tch. You were made for eachother.

How YOUNG are you that you think it is okay to talk to someone this way? Grow up.

You both sound terribly immature and ill prepared for a meaningful relationship. Just let this one go. Focus on personal growth and goals. Then in a few years....try again.

Sounds like your traditional guy... just thought you should know he's only using you and he doesnt give a **** about you. If he did he wouldnt be treating you the way he was! you should forget about him and move on with your life! He was only there for the one thing and now that he hasnt gotten it hes pissed! it happens with all guys. I know it hurts i'm going through the same thing right now and im finding it hard to cope! Men are asswholes and we women should know that but i think we would much rather be in denial than admit the truth. Delete his number.... block his calls and move on! If he texts just delete it! dont let him back into your life because trust me he's just going to hurt you again. Men rarely change!