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medical science has improved alot ,all treatment are avaiable,hence no need to leave partner ,if no solutions then go and adopt a child ,that will be better

you're right akn, there's nothing impossible now in our present hi-tech era. Thanks for responding to this post.

I would have thought just getting married to your partner was proof enough that you love him/her. If all my partner wants from me is a means of getting a child, then that person doesn't love me and we need to part company. Having children is something a couple should discuss before they get married, and the in-laws should have no say in the matter. It should be strictly between the couple. If they both want children but are unable to conceive, there is always adoption.

Thanks precious, There's really no one of control to such situation. And yes, there is a problem, there's always a solution. Thanks for dropping by and respond to this post.

never.love cant be turned on and off and if you truely love that person then you couldnt see yourself having children with anyone else. there are always alternitive ways to start a family. If leaving is an option then mayby having a family should be reconsidered anyway.

Thanks cassandrakd. Marriage is really for loving couple and children are rewards for relationship bound with love. Thanks for responding.

Thanks cassandrakd. Marriage is really for loving couple and children are rewards for relationship bound with love. Thanks for responding.

Marrige is the proof that two people are inlove. Some says they could not live without the one they love. They made promises that they would accept each other deficiencies for the sake of their love. But for some, the purpose of getting married is to have a family. And you could not call it a family if there is no children, right? But if you got married and found out that one of you would not be able to bear a child, would you care and stick to what you have promised to eachother or would you rather leave your partner? How would you prove your love to your partner? How would you weigh having a child in a marriage? Your views please.

hello SimpleBB, There are other options to haveing children that is adoption in the U.S.A. or international adoption and infertilelization where another lady or sister carries your baby etc... but I would not leave my partner. But there is a flip side to this because it happen to me where I already had two children from my ex-husband my ex-boyfriend after being in the military for over 20 years decided in his 40 wanted to have children since he had low sperm count and ask me to carry his baby which I would not because I felt he would never be around to help take care of it and other issues went behind my back and ask his other females friend to carry his baby and his godchild 21 year old asked her roomate and she did it. They have a child and I was not told until the child was born... to love better or for worse?hmmmm begs to wonder if people really beleive that anymore. I let him go and now dating someone elese that was over 2 years ago. I hope his happy. Persoanlly I felt that a baby trumps Love! in his eyes anyway. He could not even break up with me the right way because of what he did. I was very shattered and I was with this guy for 10 years Thanks sorry so long answer. Sincerely unique16

I wouldn't leave my partner if he can't bear a child.marriage is about union between a man and woman who love each other.I don't believe that marriage is all about having and raising a child.I would really appreciate it if he will tell me that he isn't capable of having children.I would also advise my partner way before marriage that I don't want children;that way,we can cut the relationship short if he does want children.