Sex with the boyfriend.. please, I know it's long.. *that's what she said* haha.. but seriously!?

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Sex with the boyfriend.. please, I know it's long.. *that's what she said* haha.. but seriously!?

Postby lorcan66 » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:06 pm

OK. First of all I cannot suggest that you have, or keep on having, sex just because you are 15 years old. It may be the case that having sex at your age is illegal. Your boyfriend should know about that. If having sex is still illegal at your age where you live the best thing you can do is to stop having sex until you become legal age.

If you decide to still have sex even if that's illegal at your age and where you live, then the best thing you can do is to talk to your boyfriend and explain to him that you want to change things. Again, I am not recommending you have sex with your boyfriend. Actually I recommend that you don't but if you have to or if you decide to then talking things over is always the best way to go. I don't know how old your boyfriend is but most likely he is not much older than you are. At that age you are both being driven pretty much by hormones and that may be real dangerous because hormones can make you do things without thinking about what you're doing. That in turn can cause some serious problems such as unwanted pregnancy and sexual transmitted diseases (STDs). Again, it's your choice. If your boyfriend respects you at least, then he should understand your interest to change the way things have been happening. If he doesn't then that probably means he's just with you for the thrill and excitement of doing things in sneaky ways and just for the sex.

Think about the risks I mention. Think about the legal problems your boyfriend may get into for having sex with you if you are underage. If you still decide to go ahead and have sex then talk to him and let him know that you don't want to just have sex but you want to really make love. That will be a test for him because if he doesn't love you then most likely he will say no or he will not be comfortable with the idea. Finally, if you decide to have sex or make love have him wear protection. That's the best thing you can do and the best I can suggest. Good luck!
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Postby chonen » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:08 pm

Hey, I wouldn't dare call you stupid,but even though you grew up fast doesn't mean you have to continue to do so...I truly think you should wait reason being is have you ever thought about what if you get pregnant are you ready to take on the responsibility of another life or better yet would he even bother with you then? I'm just saying I know you have some goals in life don't sell yourself short for pleasure...I grew rough baby and still going through a lot,but it made me who I am today,but I knew right from wrong. I wasn't even thinking about sex at your age....so don't use your life as an excuse..
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Postby rendell5 » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:21 pm

Just do it, 99% of the time you suggest something in bed with a guy, he will say yes to it and try it. Being a guy, its kind of a turn on to try new things and not do the same position over and over again. About lasting longer, idk if switching positions will help with that but there are plenty of sites to look at if you Google simple words like "lasting longer in bed."
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Postby giorgio » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:24 pm

Sorry honey, but length in sex comes with age and trust from your mother. By the way you need to get to a plan-parent hood or health department. You can go by yourself or with friend. You need birth control. But continue to use protection. About the clothes, um, it will get better as you get older.
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Postby ignado » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:31 pm

thee best thing was just wait until you know you'll be alone not older or whatever. your virginity and who you give it to should give it to is like important, its a memory for life, if hes gone in you then you have had real sex. and trust me, im sure he wants to pleasure you as much as you want to pleasure him simply talk to him and im sure you guys will work something out cus you don't seem stupid (that's a compliment wink wink;) )
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Postby enando46 » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:33 pm

NO you are NOT stupid :) sex is COMMON in your age, well it was when i was your age, just as long as you're being protected, (i know you don't wanna hear it, but most boys are complete DOGS!) then go for it, just know what COULD happen. and as for your question,.. just be open and honest with him, he should understand, that you don't wanna be putting in all the work all the time. good luck
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Postby dabi » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:38 pm

Okay, Im Thirteen And All, And I've Had Sexual Urges Before So This IS NOT A Hate Mail Thingy. I Think You Guys Should Try Somewhere More Privite. Tell Him Straight Up That You Want More Time For Just The Two Of You. And Then Tell Him You Wanna Be On The Bottom For Once And Make Love.
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Postby paden » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:39 pm

Sweety. I was having sex at 15 as well. I had a baby. Although I love her with all my heart and wouldn't trade her for the world... I had to drop out of school, get my GED. Miss my proms, graduation and etc. So yes, I have every right to tell you... YOU ARE TOO YOUNG! At least be safe... There is so much more that can happen to you besides getting pregnant... There are more STD's than you can count... And your teenage years are precious! Good Luck!
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